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Don’t F*kn Shrink
You know that voice in your head that whispers “play it safe, stay small, don’t rock the boat”?
Yeah… we’re not listening to that here.
Welcome to Don’t F*kn Shrink, the podcast for high achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to stop holding back, build unshakable confidence, and show up fully in their lives.
I’m Daffney Allwein, performance coach, athlete, and unapologetic believer that you were never meant to shrink yourself to fit. For nearly two decades, I’ve helped elite performers, from pro athletes to top-level executives, rebuild their bodies, strengthen their mindset, and rise higher than they thought possible.
On this show, you’ll get:
- Unfiltered conversations with people who’ve faced setbacks, reinvented themselves, and refused to quit
- Mindset strategies to push past fear, self-doubt, and perfectionism
- Performance habits that fuel success without burnout
- Real talk on leadership, resilience, and personal growth, the kind nobody puts in their highlight reel
This isn’t fluff. This isn’t fake inspiration. This is the place to get tools, truth, and a powerful reminder that you were made to take up space.
So if you’re ready to stop shrinking, break through your limits, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside… hit that follow button.
Because the journey starts now.
Don’t F*kn Shrink
17: The Unapologetic Start to Your 2026 Transformation
What if the problem with New Year’s resolutions isn’t your discipline, but the way you’re talking to yourself? This episode flips January goal-setting on its head with No Judgment January, a radically different approach to change that doesn’t start with fixing yourself. Daffney explains why most resolutions fail within days, how self-judgment quietly drains your energy, and what actually creates sustainable change as women, moms, and high-performing professionals. You’ll hear why “going back” isn’t the answer, how perimenopause, stress, and nervous-system overload show up in everyday life, and a surprisingly simple way to reset your body when anxiety takes over. Daffney also introduces a powerful framework (your internal C-Suite) and shows how aligning your mindset, body, and nervous system can transform how you move into 2026 without shame, restriction, or burnout. If you’re done punishing yourself every January and ready for forward momentum that actually sticks, this episode is for you!
In This Episode:
- (01:20) Why New Year’s resolutions fail faster than you think
- (04:15) No Judgment January
- (07:30) Your internal C-Suite; mindset, body, and nervous system explained
- (13:50) What your body is trying to tell you; inflammation, chronic pain, perimenopause, and menopause
- (18:40) How your nervous system drives stress, anxiety, and burnout
- (27:00) Stress management techniques that actually work
Connect with Daffney:
The Game-Changer Consult → This 60 min deep dive offers you clarity and insight into what’s possible for your next 60 days. Leave this consult feeling full of possibility and with the energy of purpose!