Don’t F*kn Shrink
You know that voice in your head that whispers “play it safe, stay small, don’t rock the boat”?
Yeah… we’re not listening to that here.
Welcome to Don’t F*kn Shrink, the podcast for high achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to stop holding back, build unshakable confidence, and show up fully in their lives.
I’m Daffney Allwein, performance coach, athlete, and unapologetic believer that you were never meant to shrink yourself to fit. For nearly two decades, I’ve helped elite performers, from pro athletes to top-level executives, rebuild their bodies, strengthen their mindset, and rise higher than they thought possible.
On this show, you’ll get:
- Unfiltered conversations with people who’ve faced setbacks, reinvented themselves, and refused to quit
- Mindset strategies to push past fear, self-doubt, and perfectionism
- Performance habits that fuel success without burnout
- Real talk on leadership, resilience, and personal growth, the kind nobody puts in their highlight reel
This isn’t fluff. This isn’t fake inspiration. This is the place to get tools, truth, and a powerful reminder that you were made to take up space.
So if you’re ready to stop shrinking, break through your limits, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside… hit that follow button.
Because the journey starts now.
Don’t F*kn Shrink
10: Alzheimer's Prevention Made Fun! Simple Habits to Boost Your Brain and Your Life with Rachel Daugherty
What if your story could be the very thing that helps someone else heal? Rachel Daugherty, better known on Instagram as BootyAndBrains, joins this episode to talk about turning pain into purpose, movement into medicine, and why healing your body and brain doesn’t have to be hard. From losing her mom to Alzheimer’s to building a platform around brain health, humor, and fitness, Rachel shares how she transformed grief into impact one honest post, one pushup, and one laugh at a time. Together, she and Daffney discuss what it looks like to care for someone you have a complicated relationship with, why women need to stop waiting for the “perfect time” to take care of themselves, and how simple bite-size movement can change your life. If you’ve ever said, “I’ll start when things calm down,” or felt stuck in survival mode, this one’s your reminder: IT MATTERS. You matter. And you don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to start.
About Rachel Daugherty:
Rachel’s work is grounded in deep respect, care, and empathy for those who know the weight of an Alzheimer’s diagnosis within their family. She specializes in translating complex science into clear, relatable insights, always backed by solid research. Her Alzheimer’s prevention journey began from a personal mission - to protect her two children from the pain and uncertainty she once faced. Today, she’s dedicated to teaching others how to do the same.
instagram.com/bootyandbrains.co
In This Episode:
- (01:30) How Rachel built the Booty And Brains platform
- (03:55) Caring for loved ones with Alzheimer’s
- (10:30) How trauma, fear, and conditioning can keep us from exercising
- (15:15) Incorporating movement into daily life
- (22:05) How post-meal walks impact metabolism, blood sugar, and longevity
- (26:30) Why every small habit matters
- (30:50) Rachel’s top 3 Alzheimer’s prevention tips
Connect with Daffney:
The Game-Changer Consult → This 60 min deep dive offers you clarity and insight into what’s possible for your next 60 days. Leave this consult feeling full of possibility and with the energy of purpose!